Last night I made a Horrible mistake with my new boy, as the title says
The first night he spent here he was very tired and it was easy to put him to bed: he went to his cage on his own when I tried to make him hop on the stick. The cage was in my bedroom so he and Bubu were the only birds around.
Yesterday I moved the cage in the bird room and he forgot all about being (supposedly) cage bound. He stayed out all day with the flock and when bedtime came he didn't want to go to sleep in the cage.
Almost all the birds go either on their own, or on the stick, or let me catch them. Sesamo is the exception and I have to catch/towel her in the dark... she is a fierce biter lol
After they were all in bed, I tried to lure new boy to his cage, but he didn't want to know. So I towelled him. He was absolutely furious and even later, in his own cage, he was hissing and acting generally as very upset.
So I let him out again and he settled on top of Darcy's cage, immediately calm again. I let him stay out for the night, after all this is a bird proof room so there is not much damage he can do to himself.
As a result of the towelling he now dislikes me A LOT and that little bit of trust he showed the first day has gone. I can't believe I made such a stupid mistake.
Today I was able to give him treats, and he comes near me when he sees the millet spray in my hand, but I know from his body language that he wishes me a million miles away from him.
Now everyone is in bed, apart from him and Sesamo who are peacefully perching in their favourite spots, one on top of Darcy's cage and the other on top of the bookshelf which is a very safe spot in a corner.
I am not really very happy to let them out for the night. They might disturb the sleeping birds flying around, and they can get in trouble maybe falling behind one of the cage stands or similar dangers.
What should I do? Towel him or let him sleep where he likes? I don't know what to do at this point. I never had such a negative reaction before, and I don't want to alienate him even more.
I let Sesamo out as well because she hates the towelling too, so I want to treat them equally.
I really need a plan for these two, please if you have tactics, ideas etc. let me know. I thought of keeping them in the cage and train them to hop on the stick as I did with Angelina, that took me about 3 days but she is probably a quick learner and she was a baby when I did that. Sesamo is quite young but the most stubborn bird you can imagine, and new boy is almost 5yo.