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Post subject: Re: I need serious help  Posted: Tue Mar 08, 2016 12:22 pm |
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CrazyConure wrote: If you don't want our opinions and decided to do what you want even though we gave you advice, then why did you title this thread "I need serious HELP"
Yes, I did bold the 'help' on purpose. You ask for advice, we gave you it, and you don't listen. What's the point then? Thats the one thing I am sick of you cant just tell me I don't listen obviously im listening if im replying, you mean I didn't agree with you because u were wrong.Its called I need serious help because I did and if you were listening you would know I already got the help.
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Post subject: Re: I need serious help  Posted: Tue Mar 08, 2016 12:23 pm |
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Mel wrote: CrazyConure wrote: If you don't want our opinions and decided to do what you want even though we gave you advice, then why did you title this thread "I need serious HELP"
Yes, I did bold the 'help' on purpose. You ask for advice, we gave you it, and you don't listen. What's the point then? I had same qeastion No Mel you didn't
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Post subject: Re: I need serious help  Posted: Tue Mar 08, 2016 2:22 pm |
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Ok, I am getting PRETTY tired of seeing this thread. I decided to ignore it at first, but it looks like things might be starting to spiral out of control. This forum is open to be viewed by the public eye, so what do you guys think would be the kind of first impression non-members or newly registered members get when one of the most recent threads consists mainly of a heated argument?
If the problem is supposedly "solved" Brandon, then I suggest you stop replying in the way that you are. People are trying to help, and you're being rude to them. And if you decide to correct me, tell me how someone's opinion is considered "wrong", "silly", or "bad". You asked for help, and people tried to help. At least be thankful.
I'm sorry for trying to take charge, but I'm honestly not a fan of conflict. I would prefer this place to be calm and happy rather than fired up and angry, so we can either cool this conversation down a notch or ten, or delete this thread and pretend like nothing happened. But that's just a suggestion.
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Post subject: Re: I need serious help  Posted: Tue Mar 08, 2016 2:24 pm |
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JessiMuse wrote: Ok, I am getting PRETTY tired of seeing this thread. I decided to ignore it at first, but it looks like things might be starting to spiral out of control. This forum is open to be viewed by the public eye, so what do you guys think would be the kind of first impression non-members or newly registered members get when one of the most recent threads consists mainly of a heated argument?
If the problem is supposedly "solved" Brandon, then I suggest you stop replying in the way that you are. People are trying to help, and you're being rude to them. And if you decide to correct me, tell me how someone's opinion is considered "wrong", "silly", or "bad". You asked for help, and people tried to help. At least be thankful.
I'm sorry for trying to take charge, but I'm honestly not a fan of conflict. I would prefer this place to be calm and happy rather than fired up and angry, so we can either cool this conversation down a notch or ten, or delete this thread and pretend like nothing happened. But that's just a suggestion. 
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Post subject: Re: I need serious help  Posted: Tue Mar 08, 2016 2:47 pm |
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All the posts/ threads from this OP end this way! "OP" refutes every and all questions and advice, I am sensing OP is purposefully trying to inflame! is this not considered Trolling... with all due respect, why does everybody feel that they have to coddle this( their is a pattern going on here) disruptive behavior. Age has nothing to do with being rude and argumentative. In my humble opinion, OP is deriving pleasure from all the attention getting. Just my observation, 
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Post subject: Re: I need serious help  Posted: Tue Mar 08, 2016 3:10 pm |
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coco wrote: All the posts/ threads from this OP end this way! "OP" refutes every and all questions and advice, I am sensing OP is purposefully trying to inflame! is this not considered Trolling... with all due respect, why does everybody feel that they have to coddle this( their is a pattern going on here) disruptive behavior. Age has nothing to do with being rude and argumentative. In my humble opinion, OP is deriving pleasure from all the attention getting. Just my observation,  Your new here right? You don't know me and don't be judging people you don't know We are all friends here why would I enjoy having arguments with my friends? I get great advice here but theres also advice I don't have to agree with.
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Post subject: Re: I need serious help  Posted: Tue Mar 08, 2016 3:54 pm |
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Brandon's-Fids wrote: coco wrote: All the posts/ threads from this OP end this way! "OP" refutes every and all questions and advice, I am sensing OP is purposefully trying to inflame! is this not considered Trolling... with all due respect, why does everybody feel that they have to coddle this( their is a pattern going on here) disruptive behavior. Age has nothing to do with being rude and argumentative. In my humble opinion, OP is deriving pleasure from all the attention getting. Just my observation,  Your new here right? You don't know me and don't be judging people you don't know We are all friends here why would I enjoy having arguments with my friends? I get great advice here but theres also advice I don't have to agree with. Yes I am ... I can read..."in your words"=( I get great advice here but there's also advice I don't have to agree with). With all due respect, you disagree with everything. "I agree with you" that they are your friends, and they exhibit profound patience with you, that is a gesture of true friendship. Unfortunately, I cannot say the same for you reaching out to them, in appreciation of their thoughtful time and energy . Which is most unfortunate for anyone trying to have a pleasant exchange of points of view "[with you]", on this message board.  Respectfully... I am not judging, merely observing, and stating my point of view, which I find you have great difficulty with allowing others to have. 
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