Usual for a hen: Bratty when they don't get what they want.

You can try getting her to eat sunflowers from the palm of your hand. That will force her closer to your actual hand, and she will learn to get used to it that way.
It's funny how birds are sometimes. Their motivations can be very silly. Lucy is very task driven, and is always trying to find something to do. Her favorite thing is destroying whatever she can get her beak on, but sometimes she does things for who knows why. For example: On the playstand, she likes to weave the string that has two acrylic beads in between the rungs of the latter it's attached to. I have absolutely no idea why.
Meanwhile Alex is very attention and praise driven. He does whatever he can to get someone to acknowledge him. Lately he's picked up on the habit of causing the most ruckus possible by faking a fright. The way I know he's faking it is because he'll stop after a few seconds and then look to see if I'm watching him. He's learned to "kiss" me (touching his beak against my lips when I say "gimme kiss"), just from me giving him scritches every time he does it.
I'm sure I can use both Lucy's business and Alex's craving for attention to train them both, but I haven't had time to start actually training. Apparently Lucy still recognizes the sound of the clicker, so getting back into the routine shouldn't be hard for her. Alex will most likely catch on quickly.
Sounds like Emma might be somewhat between food and attention driven. She's willing to take sunflower seeds from you, and she likes it when you talk to her. I would make her reach for her food. If you can get her to eat from your palm, try putting the sunflower seeds on your palm, but on a part of the hand that's further away. Eventually, you'll be able to get to the point where she will have to step onto your hand in order to reach it. Every time she does feel brave enough to stretch, give her positive words of encouragement like "good girl" and such. That way, she'll be getting both food and praise for a reward, and that should probably speed the process of her trusting her.