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Post subject: Re: I might leave the forum :(  Posted: Wed Mar 23, 2016 8:29 pm |
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CrazyConure wrote: I have one question. Why are you up at 4:24 am???? Well it was a busy day, My Aunt who owns Cracker came up and she doesn't leave till late and then I was bird proofing my door so the birds cant perch up there and then I was watching Bee Movie and then I came on here but before I watched the film the internet was down so I was waiting a while for that to come back on.I'll probably be up for another few minutes because I'm not really tired and I'm going out tomorrow to get the birds toys.
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Post subject: Re: I might leave the forum :(  Posted: Thu Mar 24, 2016 3:33 am |
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Jan wrote: I agree with Tielfan... Last chance as far as I'm concerned.... I think your one confused muddled up young person... Be kinder in your replies and people will advise you.... at your age you have lots to learn.... Listen to B, he is young, but boy has he grown in the last year or more his, advise is very very good.... that's all I'll say.... How am I confused exactly? I am perfectly fine.And I'm a very kind person so no need for me to be kinder, I have never ever disrespected anybody here.
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Post subject: Re: I might leave the forum :(  Posted: Thu Mar 24, 2016 6:14 am |
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Brandon's-Fids wrote: Jan wrote: I agree with Tielfan... Last chance as far as I'm concerned.... I think your one confused muddled up young person... Be kinder in your replies and people will advise you.... at your age you have lots to learn.... Listen to B, he is young, but boy has he grown in the last year or more his, advise is very very good.... that's all I'll say.... How am I confused exactly? I am perfectly fine.And I'm a very kind person so no need for me to be kinder, I have never ever disrespected anybody here. Maybe you're not confused. But the way you put things, well it's very confusing for us to read. Sometimes we try and understand, put up a reply to be baffled again. I have given up on answering your posts in the past only because I didn't want discussions to start in this friendly enviroment. You are very vocal about your opinion, and that is not a bad thing really. It's just, if you ask advice, and it is given, and then you voice your views on the matter in the way you do people go: 'well why ask in the first place?' then we go silent and your response is a very needy 'bump this thread to get an answer faster'. I don't want you to feel unwelcome here, so that is why I have not answered any of your posts. I might try again in the future, but I can't promise I'll keep it up if your way of interacting with others on this forum doesn't change somewhat.
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Post subject: Re: I might leave the forum :(  Posted: Thu Mar 24, 2016 9:58 am |
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Bjornlefevre wrote: Brandon's-Fids wrote: Jan wrote: I agree with Tielfan... Last chance as far as I'm concerned.... I think your one confused muddled up young person... Be kinder in your replies and people will advise you.... at your age you have lots to learn.... Listen to B, he is young, but boy has he grown in the last year or more his, advise is very very good.... that's all I'll say.... How am I confused exactly? I am perfectly fine.And I'm a very kind person so no need for me to be kinder, I have never ever disrespected anybody here. Maybe you're not confused. But the way you put things, well it's very confusing for us to read. Sometimes we try and understand, put up a reply to be baffled again. I have given up on answering your posts in the past only because I didn't want discussions to start in this friendly enviroment. You are very vocal about your opinion, and that is not a bad thing really. It's just, if you ask advice, and it is given, and then you voice your views on the matter in the way you do people go: 'well why ask in the first place?' then we go silent and your response is a very needy 'bump this thread to get an answer faster'. I don't want you to feel unwelcome here, so that is why I have not answered any of your posts. I might try again in the future, but I can't promise I'll keep it up if your way of interacting with others on this forum doesn't change somewhat. Yeah your right I said I will try make my posts more clear to see.
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Post subject: Re: I might leave the forum :(  Posted: Thu Mar 24, 2016 10:01 am |
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tielfan wrote: A VERY large percentage of your replies to people sound argumentative and disdainful. It happens every time somebody says something that you didn't want to hear or don't agree with, which occurs frequently. They were just trying to help someone (usually you, and their advice was usually good) or be nice to somebody (usually you). I've seen the same scenario play out on other boards too. People try to be nice to you and give you the benefit of the doubt, but your rude-sounding comments provoke them over and over and over again, until finally they can't take it any more. So they either stop talking to you at all or they start to go on the offensive. Then you start a thread saying you might leave the group because people aren't friendly any more, or sometimes you announce that you actually are leaving the group. But before long you come back and start provoking people again. When anyone complains about your behavior you say you're an innocent, misunderstood victim. This goes on until the admins get so fed up with the disruption that they kick you out.
So that's one kind of "confusion" in your posts. Your words convey the impression that you think the people talking to you are stupid and not worthy of polite treatment. Another type of "confusion" is that your story frequently seems to change. When people question something that you said, you say that you actually meant something else. But most of the time the original statement looks very clear. These things make it very frustrating for people to talk to you. Nobody here is stupid and if my posts look rude to you im not actually being rude because im not that type of person and I never said I was innocent and I said I would make things more clear.And if I said I was leaving I would leave and it would be for good.
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Post subject: Re: I might leave the forum :(  Posted: Thu Mar 24, 2016 11:30 am |
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Quote: Listen to B, he is young, but boy has he grown in the last year or more his, advise is very very good.... Aww. Thank you Jan. You're so kind!
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Post subject: Re: I might leave the forum :(  Posted: Thu Mar 24, 2016 11:31 am |
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CrazyConure wrote: Quote: Listen to B, he is young, but boy has he grown in the last year or more his, advise is very very good.... Aww. Thank you Jan. You're so kind! Shes right you do give good advice.
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